I needed to find a budget wedding dress so I took the plunge a week or so back and parted with the cash.
There were a few things that I had to ensure before I confirmed the purchase.
Firstly, the most obvious point was that I was on a strict budget! I read somewhere the other day that the average cost of a wedding dress in the UK is around £1,300 (!!). Sorry, but I think that’s nuts. That’s a massive chunk out of our budget.
So, the second thing you need to do is research and decide what you actually want, and what will make you happy.
Where to find THE budget wedding dress
Wedding Dress Hire
If you don’t mind if you don’t keep your dress and want the latest style from the runway, dress hire may be an option for you.
As part of the price, a lot of the dresses also come with veils, shoes and sometimes jewellery too.
You could grab yourself a wedding dress for a week for around £300 – £800.
Sample Sales and Factory Outlets
Looking for a classic wedding dress on a budget? Why not start with a going to a sample sale or factory outlet. They sell dresses off the peg for 70% cheaper than the labelled price. Now if that’s not a budget wedding dress I don’t know what is?
The dresses are normally new with some that may have been used for catwalks or modelling. They have usually discontinued lines or unused samples.
You could potentially look to bag a dress between £150 and £450.
High Street Wedding Dress
Head to the high street for a budget wedding dress and you’ll be surprised how much choice you’ll get. Some well known shops have a selection of dresses that won’t hurt the purse so much.
As well as the bride, BHS also cater for bridesmaids and the boys. They quite often have special sales and do a mean winter sale. Price for a budget wedding dress start at £80.
Next stop, the supermarket. Yes, as well as picking up the makings of a Sunday roast, Tesco also do a small range of bridal wear. Most of their clothes are best for bridesmaids but it never hurts having a look. Prices start at £60.
Debenhams have quite a wide range of dresses to choose from and also have outfits for the mother of the bride, groom and your bridesmaids. Prices start at £115 but their Blue Cross sales are pretty epic and have 70% off. Their sales are on either over the summer or in the new year so you have to get your timing right.
TK Maxx stock brands (some of which you may not have heard of) at lower prices. Brands include Phase Eight who have their own wedding selection on their site starting at £250 and Coast whose prices on their site start from £180. Their dresses start from £80.
House of Fraser have dresses starting from £175 and John Lewis dresses start from £180. Again, they stock a variety of brands such as TX Maxx, just maybe not as competitively priced.
Monsoon have quite a collection of dresses, starting from £89, but I just love their flower girl dresses. They are very cute, even if touching on the high side of the budget.
- Wedding Dress from eBay
, £49.99 - Kamilinka Lace Backless Maxi Dress from Miss Guided, £39.99
- Ivy Long Bridal Dress from BHS, £62.50 (was £125)
- Little Mistress Embelished Maxi Dress from next, £80
- Coast Megan Maxi Dress exclusive from Debenhams, £150 (was £250)
- Nina Bridal Dress from Monsoon, £68.50 (was £229)
- Ice Blossom Lace Top Maxi Dress from Tesco, £40
- Sue Wong Full Length Cornelli Bead Dress from TK Maxx, £46 (was £129.99)
Other High Street
Why get a “normal” wedding dress? If you’re not into the big floaty dresses, why get one? You can pick up some lovely dresses / prom dresses / bridesmaid style dresses on the high street or online for a fraction of the value.
Any time you put the word “wedding” in front of something the prices goes up. Try searching for occasion wear or prom dresses and you’ll be surprised how wedding like they are. Who’d know the difference – other than you?
Try places like ASOS, Warehouse, New Look or Zara and use the filters to search for white, cream and ivory dresses. Season by season, they normally have something that can be workable.
You could grab an absolute bargain from just £30 but you do need to have a good hunt around. Remember to also get cashback and find a voucher code too.
Second Hand
If you think about how much time you spend in your wedding dress, it’s not really that long. You could end up buying one of the most expensive dresses of your life that you will wear just once. Just think of how much per hour that’ll cost you.
Instead of buying your own dress, you not buy one from someone else? There are sites that specialise in wedding dresses like Sell My Wedding Dress, and wedding sites like Confetti who have a forum where people sell their things on.
Why not also look at other sites like Preloved or eBay who also have areas for wedding attire.
There are numerous selling groups popping up all over Facebook too.
If you’re very lucky you could grab a budget wedding dress bargain on eBay for 99p (although maybe slightly unlikely). Dresses on the other sites are likely to be priced or won at auction from £50 up to around £1,000 depending on the brand.
Charity Shop
Similar to buying second hand, but you can do it in a shop environment and get to try the dress on. Not all wedding dresses are going to be second hand. Some may be end of line, or even brand new ones that have been kindly donated.
Charity shops have been growing and growing as a place to buy your wedding dress. A number of them now have bridal specific shops like Oxfam and Red Cross.
More local charity shops also do this too such as Hospice in the Weald in my town.
Have a quick Google or search for a charity shop near you on Charity Retail Association’s store locator.
Even if the charity shop doesn’t have a bridal speciality, it still doesn’t hurt having a look through the rails as you never know what could of been donated.
Prices start from around £50 but do go high depending on the brand.
Upcycle
Maybe you have a friend who got married recently and they have a dress they no longer want, or your mum has kept her dress and is happy for you to alter it.
How about looking in your own wardrobe and seeing if there is something that you already own that you could upcycle.
Not only are you being very good with your budget but you are being eco-friendly too.
This could cost you next to nothing.
So, that’s the options that you have to grab a budget wedding dress. But do you want to know what I did? And how much I was willing to spend?
Well I’ll tell you. But not today. Keep an eye out for future posts by signing up to our mailing list and I’ll let you know exactly how I got my budget wedding dress for less than £100.
Naomi knows the burden of living on very little and became debt free by learning from past mistakes and following her own money saving tips and tricks.
I bought my dress from Brides Dress Revisited in Otford which was a wonderful place to buy a dress and comes highly recommended by me.
Hospice in the Weald also have a great bridal selection in Camden Road, Tunbridge Wells (although some are a little 80s!) and Oxfam have bridal shops across the country.
Good luck brides! And don’t also forget to check out Pinterest and the website Offbeat Brides if you want inspiration on something a little different.
I’ve been into Hospice in the Weald to look for a budget wedding dress and didn’t have much luck either. They do get dresses in all the time so I suppose it’s a matter of being lucky when you visit. Some people prefer the vintage look so it’d be perfect for them though!
– Naomi
We decided to have a themed wedding. We met at a karate training camp so did an oriental theme. I wore a Chinese dress which only cost me £15 and got some bargain shoes in the Clarks sale for £15. Looking forward to reading all about your dress x
Wow – I bet your photos looked stunning! There is nothing wrong at shying away from all white and still looking amazing x
– Naomi
I took a risk and ordered my dress made to measure from china – I made sure I chose a seller with 100% positive feedback and it paid off. My dress cost me £85, fit perfectly and was absolutely exactly what I wanted. And the small price means I get to keep it! x
Brilliant! Did you have to pay for any excess VAT charges?
I’ve heard some horror stories about eBay dresses. But then again, for every horror story, I’ve heard another person singing their praises!
When you think about it, the dresses in wedding shops are probably made in China anyway – using the same dress makers that probably made your dress! Why pay thousands when you can get the same thing on £85?
– Naomi
I used 9lover.com I found the perfect designer dress in the shops which cost £950. I asked this company in Hong Kong to make me the exact same, made to measure. I received it within 5 weeks for £180! It was perfect x
I haven’t heard of that site before. I’ll go and check it out. Thanks for the tip.
– Naomi
i got my dress direct from china and paid £60 for it made to measure. we got married in a windmill and had the reception in a 1940’s air tower. Everything from food for 100 people, dresses and suit hire, rings, transport, live band, photographer, brought 12meter and 6meter marquees, decorations, cake the works for less than £5,500.
Good job!! If you own the marquees now, you could even hire them out to future brides and start making your money back too!
– Naomi
I hired my dress online at smthborrowed.com It arrived next day, luckily it fitted, got married 3 days after and returned my dress, all together £109. No dry cleaning, no endless visits to boutiques and pushy sales people.
That’s a really good idea. I would be worried about dropping anything down the dress but I can see in their terms and conditions that you are covered for minor stains under the insurance that you take out as part of the rental agreement.
Thanks for the tip!
– Naomi
I had my own mums vintage 1940s dress altered, with her full agreement some 29 years ago. Be warned though as I didn’t know until this year that my mum hated the changes made and had never forgiven me for this. Had I had any inclination of the resentment this has caused her over the years then I would have been happy wearing a standard dress. She refuses to speak to me about this, refused to accept it back, refused to allow me to get it altered back (at considerable expense) so the dress has now been accepted by a local lace museum with a view to returning it to its glory. I’m glad to see the back of it.
So just a word of caution if using/adapting a relatives dress. Nowt so odd as families!
There are lots of really lovely off the peg ones now and going to the textile cities of the UK like Leicester and Manchester there are true bargains in the bespoke small businesses.
Good point – if you want to alter a dress then you really need to make sure that the previous owner is happy – and properly happy.
There are so many dresses that you can get off the peg, I agree. I know not everyone is a standard size but, with so many different shops now selling dresses, you’ll be sure to find a dress that is a good fit in at least one shop.
– Naomi