You’re broke, skint, have no money and feel like you’ve hit rock bottom. There’s no food in the fridge or cupboards. The kids need feeding. You’re hungry and haven’t eaten. What on earth do you do?
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It’s a horrible, depressing situation.
You’re broke, skint, have no money and feel like you’ve hit rock bottom.
There’s no food in the fridge or cupboards.
The kids need feeding. You’re hungry and haven’t eaten.
You have no money and need help, and there’s nothing to eat.
What on earth do you do?
Don’t cry
You are not a failure!
Please read this again and repeat the words.
You are NOT a failure.
While it won’t help you, you are not the only person this has happened to. Depressingly, this happens too often.
Running out of money and food is not something that only happens to people on benefits or any other stereotype.
Having a low income (or even a decent income, but the bills are wiping out everything), debt and even delays in wages mean people don’t have enough money to make it though.
What can you do if you run out of food?
It doesn’t matter how many others are going through this as you are the one dealing with this right now.
You may find yourself saying in your head, “I have no money what do I do?!”
It’s a situation they don’t teach you in school. There isn’t a “how to” programme on TV.
You may be scared and totally unsure what to do, but there are things you can do to help.
How much do you really have?
First, it’s worth seeing how much money you really have.
Is your bank at zero, or is there a few quid?
Do you have a savings pot you can raid?
How much change has dropped behind the back of the sofa?
Look around your home – how much is there?
You’ll likely find a few pounds. This isn’t as much as you may spend on a normal food shop, but 45p can buy you a 1kg bag of rice and 75p will get you a kilo bag of porridge oats.
While you may not think it’s the most appetising meal in the world, it may be very basic, it will feed you for less than £1 for a few days.
Stock check
Grab a pen and paper.
Open up every cupboard, fridge and freezer and start making a list.
What do you have?
You may not use it every day. You may have been given it in a weird hamper and it’s gone untouched. It doesn’t matter.
If you have some food, any food, then you may be able to cook up a few different things.
Get out of your comfort zone
Your favourite meals maybe a roast dinner or a spag bol, but you’re going to need to adapt and learn to be a bit inventive for a while.
Head to Supercook. It’s like the Google of recipes.
Add in every single ingredient you have – even if you think it’s a silly thing to cook with. The more things you add, the more recipes suggestions it’ll give you.
Supercook has over 600,000 recipes and will search for what you can make, based on what you’ve got leftover.
Thrifty Lesley also has a mass of mega-budget recipes.
Search for your ingredient and you’ll find loads of ideas to feed yourself.
Sell up or clear out
Do you have stuff that you don’t really need?
Video games, DVDs, jewellery?
Forget eBay, as it takes too long. Turn to Facebook Marketplace, Gumtree and even a pawn shop.
Used more specialist sites to get the best overall value:
You may not get fortunes, but you’ll get something to help buy some food.
Also, have you bought anything recently? If you still have the receipt (and the return policy is good), you could return the item and get your cashback.
Use up loyalty points
Dig your loyalty cards out and see how much you’ve got on them.
Sainsbury’s Nectar points and Boots Advantage card points can be spent straight from the card. You may also have some unused Tesco Clubcard points so jump onto their site to see if you’ve got points to spend.
While Sainsbury’s and Tesco may be able to get you some food and loo roll, save the Boots points for basic toothpaste, deodorant and shampoo.
Working? Ask for an advance
If you’re working, you may be able to get a small advance on your wages.
It will obviously leave you short the following payday, but it’s a much better option than a high interest loan.
Speak to your HR department and see if they can help.
Phone a friend
While your loose change may feed you for a day or so and you can use up the food in your cupboards for a few more days, it’s not going to be sustainable for too long.
Do you have a relative or friend who can help? Could they lend you some money to buy food, or have you round for dinner a couple of times?
It’s very easy for me to say, but I have to admit it’s not something we did. I felt embarrassed that we didn’t have enough money to look after our children and was ashamed to pipe up and ask for help from our nearest and dearest.
However, when we did end up telling, well, everyone about the troubles we were going through with money, our family were the first people stepping up to help out – without making us feel guilty or that we were a failure. They were supportive and loving.
It’s a big step to ask people you know for help but, if they can, they will try to help.
Get free food
There are a couple of options to get food for free.
Foodbank
It may not be something you’ve heard of, or you may have never thought of using one, but you can use a food bank.
A food bank is a charitable organisation that distributes food to people in need.
Anyone is able to use a food bank, regardless of whether you receive benefits, work part-time or work full time.
How do you use a food bank?
You’re not able to just show up but have to receive a referral.
The best thing is to find your nearest foodbank. Trussell Trust has the largest network with over 400 food banks in the UK.
There are also food banks run by churches, so you could try to call your nearest church and they could make a suggestion.
Get a food bank referral
Ask them if they accept a referral form.
You will need to go and visit the referral agency and they will likely be:
- Citizen’s Advice
- Children’s Sure Start Centres
- Job Centre
- GP
- Health Visitor
Make an emergency appointment and explain your situation.
Foodbank voucher
They will provide you with a foodbank voucher for a letter which you’re able to exchange for food.
You’ll usually get enough food to last around 3 days and you may also get some toiletries and cleaning products, depending on what they’ve been donated and what you need.
Food sharing Olio app
Believe it or not, people give away unwanted food for free.
It may have come from a restaurant, café, allotment or a normal family home, but instead of letting food go to waste, people are happily letting others have it at no cost.
The Olio app is free to download and free to use.
It’s not got a massive user base in smaller towns, but if you live in a large town or city you may find a good haul.
Have you paid your bills?
Adding this to the end as a potential that may help.
This isn’t the best idea in the world as it will make the following months just as tight, and get you in debt. However, if you’re really struggling then it may be one of those things that really help.
I’m not suggesting at all to not pay your priority bills, like rent/mortgage and council tax. If you don’t pay those then not eating will be the last of your worries as you may lose your home.
However, are there any other bills that you could avoid paying for a month?
Don’t just cancel and sweep it under the rug. Call them. Your gas, electricity and water providers will be able to make some suggestions and may be able to help you pay your bills are arrears over a longer period.
This may give you a little breathing room.
What you shouldn’t do
If you’ve got no money for food, don’t panic.
There are plenty of things you can do to change your situation immediately and put food on the table.
If at all possible, you do not need to turn to high-interest payday loans or, worse still, a loan shark.
They will make your finances a whole lot worse and get you trapped in a bad debt cycle (not to mention that loan sharks are illegal).
Don’t do something that you’ll regret, like try to steal food. Your family will want you at home with them, not sitting at a police station. Even in desperate times, you have other options.
Help for tomorrow
Hopefully, these ideas will help you eat today, tomorrow and for a good few days until you get money again.
We want you to be ok in the long run as well.
If you’re struggling with money and have debt, please do get some free debt advice and get some support for your finances for the future.
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Please do keep your chin up.
Things will get better x
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Mrs Tubbs says
Not all food banks require referrals. Some will also open out of hours in an emergency. It’s worth asking when you call for details.
Great post btw. Shame it’s so needed right now
cheryl soergel says
Very good advice. I live in the U.S. and we have community food banks to help people. No one should have to go hungry in this day and age. Cheryl
Ricky Willis says
Hi Cheryl
It’s great to hear that US have community food banks, I’m sure they really help people when things are too tough. It’s a shame it gets that far though
S Ravichandran says
I need money for food and urgent misc expense for my family. No job &no income due to covid19 lockdown.please help me urgently.
Naomi Willis says
I’m sorry to hear that. Please get an appointment with your GP and ask for a food bank referral. Also, get an appointment with your local Citizens Advice so they can go through any financial support with you
Erika R says
I am also in the same situation as Ravichandran. Due to Covid shut down we lost our jobs and our car and even though we are still looking for a job but no luck. We were able to get some food from churches but can’t find help with property tax. I maxed out all my credit cards and borrowed too much and I’m just not in the good place right now with all the losses and borrows. My family goes through a lot especially depression. I was told I should see a therapist but that won’t solve our money problems. We never borrowed money before or load credit card but we had no choice the bills had to be paid. Now we are back to where we started, need help paying the property tax. If anyone know any places in Swartz Creek MI where we could get help please message back to me.I could also use a prayer! Thanks everyone!
Naomi Willis says
It’s been such an awfully tough and testing time for so many. I am not sure of the processes outside of the UK, but you are in my thoughts, Erika, and I hope you see the back of all this soon.
Wean says
ha ha, have you tried getting an appointment with a
GP lately ? you’ll starve to death while your waiting weeks/months !!
Holly says
cookingonabootstrap.com is a website devoted to low budget recipes including decent meals that can be made from tinned foods. There are also recipes that can be made just in a microwave or in a mug for anyone without a hob/oven.
Naomi Willis says
Totally agree. I love the recipes they make and we’ve tested a fair few of them.
T K says
I don’t have an income because I’m unable to work for health reasons.
However I’m humbled by the experiences of people who have families and are struggling to feed and pay expenses like the rest of us.
I can only hope and pray that things improve for all of us into the future.
Tk
Fred says
All this suggestions has help me get nothing, everything that I’ve read so far nothing helps me eat today tomorrow or yesterday, today is 4th day with out eating , I have no running water , and my power has been cut off as of yesterday, and all this claiming to help due to the covid is either a flare out lie or I’m being discriminated , the last thing left is to steal or rob and I have never did either, but hungry will make u do the unthinkable,
Naomi Willis says
Hi Fred, I am really so sorry to hear your situation. It’s a really difficult place to be in. Within the post it says about getting support from a food bank. If you speak to your GP or Citizens Advice, they can give you a referral and you can get food. In terms of the water and power, I’d suggest you also speak to Citizens Advice so they can understand what’s happened and get the right help in place for you